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canthm. I admit I wish for someone who can speak my language so I will not spe

I admit I wish for someone who can speak my language so I will not spend a lifetime translating my soul. Even if I cannot have someone who can speak my language, I also wish for someone who tries to learn my language and I will learn his. ⠀ ⠀ I told my therapist about how I don't believe in true love, I don't want to get into relationships and I don't want to get married...I witnessed and went through what happened within my family and the guys I met were all 💩. That is why I have trust issues with men. Then she asked me the reason I don't want to get involved in relationships and marriage is really because I don't want to or because of those experiences? Have I ever listened to what my heart really wants? She adviced me to address what I really want instead of pushing them away because I perceive that I will never have them. So the conclusion is I did listen to what my heart really wants but I feel weird about it because I feel that it is wrong for me to want something or someone...

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"The state of my heart The place where we are Was written in the stars" 🎄⭐ - #Westlife #Writteninthestars #Quotes #GardensByTheBay #christmaswonderlandSG #VisitSingapore #SuperGroveTrees

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canthm. Well...We were all in pain due to excessive laughing. 😂😆
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We are

Well...We were all in pain due to excessive laughing. 😂😆 ⠀ ⠀ We are a bunch of "good friends who don't let you do stupid things....ALONE", we are all in this together! I hope I won't need to hear the 'WAH' in my dreams! 🤣 ⠀ ⠀ Our family outing was almost complete for the night! Next round full squad ok! 💙😘 📷: @rah1989⠀ #Feelingblessed #Feelingloved #Destantanfamily #Thankyouforbeingoneofthebestpartsofmylife #journeywithtan

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canthm. I know of a girl who does not like skinship (physical contact) yet she

I know of a girl who does not like skinship (physical contact) yet she always accept all my hugs. 🙆‍♀️ I know of a girl who I want to make her laugh and annoy her on purpose for the rest of my life. THANK YOU for giving me access to you, your heart, your family & your inner world. You know how ♋ love? Hold on to you tightly with the pincers🦀. I love you thissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss much, @sabrinasyaza16 ! ❤😘 📷: @lyjovin #bestfriends #FeelingLoved #FeelingBlessed #Thankful #thankyouforbeingoneofthebestpartsofmylife #Loveofmylife

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canthm. 不能同年同月同日生 也不愿同年同月同日死, 只愿在活着的年华里有彼此的陪伴。
We do not have the same exact b

不能同年同月同日生 也不愿同年同月同日死, 只愿在活着的年华里有彼此的陪伴。 We do not have the same exact birth date and I don't wish that we depart on the same exact date as well. I only hope that we will always have each other throughout the years while we are alive. I cannot thank you enough for EVERYTHING you have done for me. Sometimes, it is just a small gesture but the accumulation of these small gestures make your love so great. I love you, my soulmate @lyjovin! ❤ #soulmatesinfriendship #Loveofmylife #thankyouforbeingoneofthebestpartsofmylife #bestfriends #闺蜜 #像家人一样的闺蜜 #FeelingLoved #FeelingBlessed #爱你不嫌多 #友情比爱情更可靠

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I am soft, yet she is softer. Because of her, I have grown tough out of my softness in order to protect her from whoever that tries to take advantage of her. 🎉HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Mummy! 💖 #DinTaiFungSingapore #ChineseCuisine #NonHalal #Loveofmylife #FeelingBlessed #FeelingLoved

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"People have stars, but they aren't the same. For travelers, the stars are guides. For other people, they're nothing but tiny lights. And for still others, for scholars, they're problems... But all those stars are silent stars. You, though, you'll have stars like nobody else." ⭐⭐⭐ #TheLittlePrince #Quotes #SingaporePhilatelicaMuseum #ThelittleprinceSPM #小王子

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Indulge in the food while engaging in our conversation. 😋 Thank you for today, @amilies_wawa ! 😘 #Indulgesg #Ilivetoeat #我就是一个吃货

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canthm. Hello 🐯! .
Verdict: It was smooth and tasted more of milk than tea.
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Hello 🐯! . Verdict: It was smooth and tasted more of milk than tea. I kinda like the pearls as they are chewy. #TigerSugarSingapore #新加坡老虎堂 #BrownSugarBobaMilkTea

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canthm. Let's chill after dark. ☕☕
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P.S Thank you @princess_hui411's for the

Let's chill after dark. ☕☕ . P.S Thank you @princess_hui411's for the gift card that enabled me to enjoy! ☺ #Starbucks1for1 #Starbuckssg #GingerBreadLatte #PeppermintMocha #FeelingBlessed #Thankful #Gratitude

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canthm. What the society taught me VS What I was taught

I was convinced by a

What the society taught me VS What I was taught I was convinced by a relative before that I was not smart enough compared to his son who went to a prestige school, had good grades and went to a local University. I was taught otheriwise...Being smart was not all about scoring good grades, it could also be being street-smart. My idea of 'target' in my teens was to do well in exams, but the boys in my school taught me that 'target' was a girl ("So, who is your next target"). . As I stepped into the society, I applied for a job that required a lady who is decent-looking. To me, being decent-looking means to be neat and properly dressed. When I got rejected, that was when I knew decent-looking was to be physically attractive. Most people look up to others who are rich in their wallets, their banks and those who are white-collar professionals. They determine the value of others by seeing the number of '0's you have in your bank or what colour your bank note is and what cards do you own in your wallet. Yet, I was taught that "some people are so poor that all they have is money" and "nowadays, people know the price of everything, and the value of nothing". . In conclusion, have your own stand. Not everything that the society is instilling are correct. 📷: @jessicateo_ #Positive #Motivation #Strength #Lessonslearntinlife

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她们是我可以一起打闹,一起互相 "酸"彼此的朋友😆 This is our CCA clique whereby we can tease, annoy one another and be sarcastic with one another without being offended.😚 Thank you for the night, ladies! 😘😘 #Feelingblessed #FeelingLoved #Thankful #Gratitude #thankyouforbeingoneofthebestpartsofmylife #Smile #Happy

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canthm. I turned my head immediately towards the direction of @gavinchongzhe '

I turned my head immediately towards the direction of @gavinchongzhe 's voice while I was walking down the streets of Orchard, like how people turn their chairs around for singers with good voice during blind auditions 😂🤣 #gavinchongzhe #busking #supportlocaltalent #songcover #就是爱你

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I don't want to be saved. I want to be found in the era where it is easier for people to let go. Not only that I want to be found, I want to be kept as well. Be the finder, be the keeper. #Sunset #MotherNature #NaturalBeauty #Skycolours #Clouds

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canthm. We need to encourage our fellow women that their beauty do not come fr

We need to encourage our fellow women that their beauty do not come from the number on the scale, makeup, the clothes, the surgical procedures, the compliments people give etc. Sad to say, the society is still quite obsessed with physical beauty which has convinced women to be of certain standard before they can be called beautiful. Dear you, no matter what, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL because you are you. There may be a thousand of women who wear the same brand of makeup as you, but they are still not you. The way you smile with that Mac lipstick is different from them, the way your eyes talk with that Chanel eyeliner and Maybeline mascara is different from them. Your beauty does not need to be determined by the number of compliments people give by telling how pretty (your looks) you are. I came across a case that the lady went for a plastic surgery because her boyfriend found her not pretty enough. Please believe that even without any of these compliments, YOU ARE STILL BEAUTIFUL. Please also believe that if a guy truly loves you, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL to him no matter what and being just the way you are is enough. How much you weigh on the scale does not reflect your worth, your strength and your soul. No matter what that number on the scale is and no matter what size of apparel you wear, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. 💖💖💖💖💖 📷: @jessicateo_ #selfconfidence #Womenempowerment #Plussize #Motivation #Positive #Strength #AboutBeauty

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canthm. We may be lost while \"searching for this unattainable form of happines

We may be lost while "searching for this unattainable form of happiness", we "too deserved to be found". Sometimes, we do not only want to be found...We want to be kept as well so we will not be lost again... May the one find you keeps you as well🙇‍♀️ Congratulations upon the launch, @thenovelencounter! 👍😄 And, THANK YOU for the hard work! 👏👏 #thenovelencounter #BookLaunch #Supportlocalwriters #Poems #Typewritten #Poetry

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