I got a new mattress & timber bedbase from @koala! 🙌🏽 It came in under 4 hours from when I placed my order & I set the entire thing up on 💁🏼♀️ But enough bragging, aside from comfort & convenience the reason I chose to go with @koala is because with EVERY purchase they adopt a koala with WWF. I’ve partnered with them to give you a $250 discount off the mattress & bed base using the code MATESWITHKATEWASLEY #sleepwithkoala #koalamattress #spon
👙 @fashionnovacurve 👙 As women, so much emphasis is placed on how we look. We are taught how to make men want to be with us and how how to make women envy us. We are told what others prefer and what they want from our appearance and how we can achieve it. I get told every day in the comments that I’m not the body type that men want, I also see them say ‘men like curves, only dogs like bones’ about thinner women. You can’t win. Your emotional, mental and physical health are all so important. Don’t let everything suffer just so you can fit societies mould of flawless beauty. At the end of the day you could be the juiciest peach on the tree and there will always be somebody that hates peaches (and decides to be a vocal asshole about it online🙄🤪) I want a man that loves me for me, not what I look like or because I’m a model, I want someone that loves me for my mind and who I am when my body changes, my skin wrinkles and my hair turns grey. I want to be at peace with myself when my body changes, my skin wrinkles and my hair turns grey.
‘You don’t have any stretch marks you wouldn’t know the struggle’ is a comment that I’ve received and that I’ve seen a lot of women receive regarding numerous things like their cellulite, their size, stomachs or anything relating to ‘body positivity’ really. It’s like you have to fit a certain mould in order to be able to speak on the issue. God forbid if someone is below a size 14 and speaks about insecurities, cause what would they know, right? They must have it so easy. It must be so much harder for you because you’re bigger, have worse cellulite & feel discriminated against every day. I get it. I understand why you feel that way, because I’ve felt those things too. I think it’s important to step back and acknowledge that EVERYONE regardless of how you may perceive them, has insecurities and they maybe have felt the exact same negative thoughts and feelings about something on their body or even their personality that you have. it’s scary to be vulnerable online. They might have really helped someone else with that post. I think every single post on body positivity is a step in the right direction, no matter how small. When I was younger and my stretchmarks started to appear although they are ever so faint, I was so insecure. Everybody has their own version and relates to different things. You don’t have to look like the Instagram version of body positivity. Stretch marks are normal no matter how or where they appear on you, It doesn’t mean youre unhealthy, too fat or that you should feel ashamed. I have them on my hips, bum, inner thighs, chest and the backs of my arms and if you swipe you’ll see other peoples versions of their own➡️
Me when someone mentions wine 🍷 @fashionnovacurve
Friday 🎩 @fashionnovacurve
I’ve had extensions since I was 14 cause my hair refuses to grow & I felt like having long hair ‘balanced my body better’ aka it was my security blanket but I’m finally LOVING it short lately...new year new me?🤪😛♥️ @fashionnovacurve
Happy 2019 ✨ hope everyone has a magical year 🥂✨
✨New Years resolutions✨lets be honest 99% of the time they’re complete bs, but we’re probably all gonna make them anyway🤷🏼♀️ In my opinion there’s nothing wrong with wanting to better yourself into the new year, just try to make sure that they aren’t influenced by the influx of skinny tea, coffee or fat Burning protein powder that blows up on Instagram this time of year. Last year my resolution was to not be such a people pleaser, not to be afraid to say ‘no’ and let go of the things that caused me major anxiety & I stuck to it! Probably because it wasn’t my usual unrealistic exercise related goal 😂 This year I’m going to focus more on all the relationships in my life that make my life what it is 💖🥂 hope you all have a Happy & Safe New Years Eve and thanks so so much for all your love and support in 2018 💖💖💖💖